My grandmother passed away May 23rd, 2009. That summer I "asked" grandma find someone who I can love and would love me equally in return. In August, something made me try farmersonly. I had no intention of trying the dating scene again, though. I guess I clicked on Alan as he sent me a message the next day. We emailed, we talked, and after some convincing from Alan, we met. We went out for a second date the next night! Our wedding is October 2010!